Sunday, May 04, 2008

Absorbed.


Is being selfish a simple matter of looking out from your own eyes, and not being able to conceive another's? Is it simply a matter of letting all else die but that which you seek the most? When does a legitimate protection of self turn into a situation which makes others wish they were dead for all the pain you are causing them on your account?

Where ends thy need, and where begins my hope? I have met many people in my life, and everyone has had an active part of them continuously working towards ensuring their own prosperity, hope and courage. 'tis but a shame that in their avid desire to save their own hides, they must lose out on so much that would seem great for their own selves.

A healthy amount of saving oneself effort and trouble is rational and expected, but a complete aversion to anything that might cause a mite of risk but lead to a plethora of gains is strange. A selfish person is very content with letting others stick their necks out, but shall protect his/herself at the cost of nearly everything else. That seems to be the rule with which they lead their lives.

Pity, that.

2 comments:

five_silver_rings said...

Hmm.. Wonder what made you write this piece. Elaborate?

Also a bit curious about the picture.

And where the hell have you been? You STILL have to play your turn at scrabulous... Or have you considered defeat? :P

Keep writing.

Vipul Nanda said...

Just a situation or two I was in. Just made me realise how completely self absorbed people are.

Just got back from a debate in Bangladesh. What's been up?